Love

Just went out with Kelvin and Clement.

Went to Hougang Point and then went to Nex to play arcade and lan.

HTHT while on the bus.

:D

I told them I shall write an essay on my blog to prepare for tomorrow's GP (since I never study at all)

And they asked me to write with the topic "Love"

And here it is.

A short one.

We all need love. Love is a feeling, a wonderful feeling. Not many can survive without it. Those who survived are all deemed to be like robots in their life. It's hard to define love because everyone has different perspectives to love. It can be a love to your friends, a love to your parents, a love to your pet or a love to your partner. Love is the most wonderful thing in life. To love and to be loved, that is what makes the world go round. However, as the global society develops and prosper, money and fame seems to overtake love as the top priority in people's mindset.

Love can change anyone drastically. It can affect the subject positively or negatively. It is often said that "Love hurts" because these are the times where people fall out of love. Therefore it is seen that love is so important to a person. Without love, we would be nothing more than a robot. With love, a person changes. If somebody falls out of love, the person would definitely feel dejected and lonely. The changes to a person's character and attitude in life would be very significant if someone loses love.

Sometimes, we have one-sided love. The love showered to someone is not returned or appreciated. When this happens, the best solution is to give up. However, to give up is not a simple task. Especially if one has deep-rooted memories with the one he loves. Time is a factor of love. If we were to draw a love-time graph, it would show how much a person puts in for the other half. Normally, the graph would start going up until its optimum point and then starts going down. It's a very common relationship problem in everyone of us. This is all due to hectic life we are having now. We all stopped showing our hearts to the one we loved as time passes by. It is unfair in a one-sided love, but this brings us to another point of forceful love. Love must never be forceful. Because it would not be called love anymore if it is forceful.

Love seems to be the balance of violence. Violence is often neutralised by love. A violent man just needs a little love and he would change. It is thus seen that love changes people's perspective of life.

It is sad to lose love. Either the person you love stop loving you or the person is not around anymore. The sadness looms even with time. It's not easy to forget the memories and just move on. It's never easy. Moving on requires one to put down all the memories, and to put down the old heart. Once moved on, a person is totally a new person. It's like a new life being born.

We all want and need love. But it's not easy to find it. Most relationships in today's world are unreal and superficial. It's sad that people are becoming more and more fake and that no one can trust everyone anymore. But it's still not impossible to find love. Love is in the air, catch it. If you caught it, cherish it. If you haven't, try hard and one day you will get to experience it. There is definitely someone in the world who loves you as much as you love him or her. Let time do the job, don't force it because what's yours will be yours and what's not yours will never be. Lastly, cherish all the people who love you and you love, for you never know when you will lose that love.